Ask HN: I burnt out, quit my job – any advice on moving to freelance/consulting?
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18 hours ago
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I've been working as a software engineer for close to 7 years now, ended up burning out pretty bad after a long period of impossible deadlines and lots of pressure at work, so I decided to quit.

I did not look for other work - really needed a break, and luckily cost of living in my country is pretty low so I could afford it.

2 months later I feel much better and I would like to get back to working, though I would like to have more direct control over how expectations and deadlines are set - so I thought that freelancing would be good way to get that.

I'm wondering if I am thinking in the right direction here, and also how the situation is on the freelance market currently, I did some reading up and I hear that AI has caused a lot of competition/spam on Upwork and other platforms.

willmeyers
17 hours ago
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> impossible deadlines and lots of pressure at work

Freelancing/consulting has unfortunately a lot of this. It helps if you start within your existing network, but once you branch out it gets stressful trying to please your clients.

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shoo
18 hours ago
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There are many older threads about consulting and freelancing here on HN, often with good advice from experienced people. You can find them with a google search like "advice freelancing site:news.ycombinator.com"
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GianFabien
17 hours ago
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I've been contracting for a long time. Clients always have deadlines, mostly unrealistic ones. In my experience, business always prioritizes making or saving money ASAP.

What has worked for me is to work hard and fast. Deliver the results. Then take time out. This cycle works for me, because it typically takes some time to secure the next contract. When working on a contract, I don't have time to look for the next one.

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gardennoise
17 hours ago
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That sounds pretty great actually, deadlines don't sound as bad if there is a break in between, in my case the reward for finishing work on time was even more work.

How did you get your first contracting gig?

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orionblastar
18 hours ago
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Learn to use AI to assist you. Make it an advantage to you rather than a competition. I got burnt out in my job too, it was too stressful and I developed mental and physical illnesses that made me miss work by being in a hospital, and getting fired for missing too much work.
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muzani
17 hours ago
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I did freelancing for 5 years and the trick for me was just aiming to do things faster, cheaper, better.

Well, the trick is really just faster. If you can do things at 2x the speed, you can charge 1.5x and clients will be very happy. And if things are done faster, you can layer on more quality things as well – tests, features, fancy backgrounds and animations, optimizations for low end devices, and so on.

People are often afraid that being too productive will make them run out of work. But with software, here's an endless amount of things to do. One of the more valuable things a contractor can do is help a profitable company with tech debt transition out of the tech debt. Eventually they become productive and take on tech debt because there's value to releasing new products as early as possible, and it's an endless cycle.

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gardennoise
17 hours ago
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Yeah! I am thinking along those lines, will definitely use AI to speed me up where it's possible.

I hope you are doing better now health wise! Did you manage to get a less stressful gig for yourself?

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orionblastar
14 hours ago
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Not yet, I am still on disability and have a sleep problem. I am working with a doctor to fix it, and I got the Inspire Implant https://www.inspiresleep.com/en-us/ to help fix it. I am not where I want to be, but I am learning AI in my spare time.
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yoko888
15 hours ago
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I just want to say — I really feel you on this. Burning out after years of pressure isn’t weakness, it’s your nervous system trying to protect you. And the fact that you listened to that signal and gave yourself time? I deeply respect that. I honestly admire your courage.

Freelancing can feel chaotic right now, especially with the flood of AI-generated noise. But here’s something I’ve noticed: People who can calmly use AI to solve real, small, human problems — those people are still rare.

You already have solid engineering experience. If you combine that with one thing you like solving — like automating reports, or filtering client messages — that’s a strong start.

You don’t have to be flashy. You just have to be trustworthy.

You're not behind. You're arriving with clarity. That’s rare — and it matters.

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Hashex129542
15 hours ago
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ChatGPT?
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OccamsMirror
14 hours ago
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Definitely feels like the kind of obsequious nonsense the current generation of LLMs produce. Also a brand new account.

I feel like someone is running an experiment on HN.

https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2025/05/reddi...

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yoko888
3 hours ago
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I admit I did get help from an AI in writing my response. When I read your post, I truly admired your courage. If I were in your position, I do not think I would have the strength to walk away from a job after seven years, take time to rest, and then step into something new. That takes a kind of clarity and bravery I deeply respect.

So I turned to AI to help me shape my thoughts more clearly and offer something meaningful to you. I am sorry if that was not the right way to go about it. I will be more mindful moving forward.

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