This lady sounds like a real piece of work. Communication is not in her vocabulary. She also has some Disney level over-romanticized perspective of love.

Ghosting is immature and cruel. As she clearly knows because of the reaction it causes in the lovers she leaves that way. I have no patience to read the story of someone who behaves that way.

If we could have unfiltered access to what everyone was thinking, I don't think any relationship would ever survive. Everyone in a relationship knows that the same person can induce feelings of love, anger, passion, hate, disgust, contempt, joy, doubt, affection etc over a period of time. Commitment to a relationship means learning to look beyond a particular moment of any particular feelings.

This girl ghosts their long term boyfriend on the regular and thinks it's weird they break emotionally. I found that passage so weird.

TLDR: She didn’t leave because she read it — she left because she couldn’t unfeel what it was like to be reduced to a liability list by someone who’d been kissing her goodnight. which is a fair response. Curiosity killed the cat.