I have used Temporal in the past, works really good, my only problem with it was some limits on request payload or event sizes, created some inconveniences to us when building solutions. It also enforces good engineering practices, but sometimes you don't want to write special logic if your CSV file is larger than 2Mb, upload it to S3, pass link, then download it in the workflow.

What is your experience with DBOS? How does it compare to Temporal in terms of operational complexity, feature parity and anything else

I recently developed a distributed queue and it works really great - benchmarks great too, with no race conditions or conflicts. I used SKIP LOCKED so that workers can compete safely.

You can also have multiple workers across nodes avoid conflict by using session wide mutexes i.e. pg advisory lock.

Not sure where the NIH ends and where you're actually better off with a supported orchestration approach. I suppose if you expect your program to be around a while (or need advanced features), maybe think about using something a bit more battle tested?

Typescript: https://www.pgflow.dev

Elixir: https://github.com/agoodway/pgflow/blob/main/docs/COMPARISON...